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There was a time in my life, last year to be precise, when I considered going into therapy. My intention back then was to tackle the issues that were arising. I reached out to a community and came across a woman who was a student in a specific field of therapy. She was offering sessions for free in exchange for using the material for her studies. I initially decided to give it a go and booked the first session.
I didn’t think finding the place would be that difficult. The session was located centrally in Oslo—I just needed to take the tram or bus to get there.
When I got off the bus and checked my bearings, I got confused. In my confusion I saw an elderly lady walking towards me, and even though I was reluctant to do it, I stopped her and asked her for help.
She smiled with a smile that could light up an entire room full of people! Her energy and enthusiasm was so contagious. She told me that she knew where the address was, and began to direct me.
The one thing that really moved me throughout my interaction with her, besides her loving and embracing energy, is when she called me “skatten min”—translated to my treasure, sweetheart, darling etc.
Now, I know this way of speaking to strangers is very commonplace in England, where I’ve lived for 3 years, but in Norway—not so much! At least not in my experience. She spoke to me as if speaking to a dear friend, kin or loved one. The way she looked at me, coupled with the energy she was sending out, left me feeling like she knew me.
Meeting her was like reuniting with a grandmother I hadn’t seen in a long time. The joy and love emanating from her, the helpful and inviting energy—it definitely left a mark.
To this day, I catch myself reflecting on that encounter. Bless her heart for not being afraid of strangers, but instead meeting them with an open heart and open arms.
Yup, she even held me as she lovingly guided me towards my destination.
A memory that transcends time.
Grateful for my magical encounter with this woman. May the love she spreads meet her ten times fold.
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